Boyfriend Killed Girlfriend then commits suicide
The #Karachi incident where a 16 year old School boy shots his girlfriend upon her will in classroom and then committed suicide with the pistol of his father in a school that happened earlier today is heartbreaking. One of my friend texted me that what is your take on this. So here is my take on this incident.
I believe that there is a specific age of everything that we do in our lives. People do fall in love, but sometimes they do not understand the meaning of Love and infatuation. The problem with our society is that we do not offer any education or counseling to our children regarding such issues. If some school boy of age 14 will try to tell his/her parents that he/she like someone i believe that he/she would end up getting beaten or offered some other punishments by their parents.
The second thing is that how can you commit suicide for someone you claim to love and you love her/him just for a few months or years while you are going to leave your parents who love you 9 months before you were even born ? How stupid is that you have to leave the love of your life in extreme pain , distress and tears for the rest of their lives ?
The thing which shocked me the most is the weapon used in this suicide. It’s a fundamental duty of parents to keep their stuff safe or keep them where the kids would never have access. My father do own a licensed gun but i can swear that i don’t know where he keeps it, neither have i ever touched it.
Why is our society so doomed that a 16 year old kid can reach out to his father’s weapon, get it in his custody, take it to a school and eventually use it?
We cannot only blame the one who commit suicide, It is the society that is to be blamed. Virtual world like movies , dramas , stories are one of the main reason our kids are going towards a really bad future. Today a 6 years old kid have more information than my when i was 15.
Solutions are simple, we need to educate our children, teach them the difference between virtual and real world, We need to give them an environment where they can share every problem with us, We need to discuss everything with them with love, care , patience and softness. Bitterness and rudeness leads nowhere.
And yeah, if anyone have watched the move Ishaqzaade they can relate it to this tragedy .
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May Almighty ALLAH help us all. Ameen.